It just seems so freaking stupid to go to work to hand 60% or more of my income to someone else. Keep in mind that my HIGHEST paying job was $36K/year. Day care is $50/day or more. So it's so complicated... is it worth the tiny bit of money we would get to keep? Yes, we need money but I'm certainly not going to be rolling in it so it's tougher to justify for me. If I had a higher paying prospect out there, maybe I would feel differently if I thought we would be able to stop taking out of the savings (or maybe even put in!) or pay down debt.

No problem about the IM. I hope you guys are feeling better!