I have bad feet. I wear inserts most of the time to help my poor aching feet. I have to buy really good, supportive shoes or my feet die. Clarks are one of the brands that work well for me. I have a pair of these...http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7294684/c/2195.html that work well for everyday use. I know they are pricey but they last and are really nice to your feet. If that isn't up your alley, perhaps http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/37046026/c/665.html or http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/32406117/c/665.html or http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/29918228/c/216.html. Well, you get the idea. I would think many of Clark's style of shoes would not be too feminine for you and would fit the bill for a good all purpose and comfortable shoe.