If both jobs were exactly the same commute, exactly the same money, which one would you take? If it's the second, then just be professional and courteous to #1 and you're not being an a-hole. You haven't taken the job until you signed the papers and confirmed everything.
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If it's the second, then just be professional and courteous to #1 and you're not being an a-hole. You haven't taken the job until you signed the papers and confirmed everything.