That is precisely why I cannot do substance abuse counseling. I don't want to stereotype the entire population, but there is a general "its not my fault, its someone else's" thing going on and the whole lack of accountability thing fucks with me.
Hey, I don't care what you do, own up to it and take the punches dude and I'll be there to hold your hand... but don't blame shit on me when YOU can't take responsibility for your own actions.

Grrr. Sounds like two of my teenagers right now.