Jude- sorry to hear that you have to deal with yet another kind and generous display of affection... I had my share of that today as well. I absolutely know this kind of person though b/c we get them all the time at Mount Carmel. They come into the ER with... "stomach pains" and go out to a psych facility- just so they can have a nice warm bed to sleep in.. It amazes me that people can get the assistance ie:Your guy already had his bed, but then they would rather continue to play the "woe me" card. So many times with people in different situations I just want them to ACKNOWLEDGE that they're doing that to themselves and if they ever really want to know why they've fallen from grace- they should take a look around at what they CONTINUE to do to themselves... Without it being anyone elses fault, but their own.. You know?