It would take some of the heat off of Jennifer since I think she is majorly pregnancy-paranoid (and I'm not).

Whoa, look back in your journal to when you were petrified of pregnancy! Why have you changed, the baby madness? :)

You could of course just adopt and then neither one of you has to get pregnant, whee! A;though I know adoption is hard for a lesbian couple but I suspect many international adoption agencies don't care.