Well, okay, true. I know that in a lot of DV situations, lots of guys will also say that their partners hit them... and a lot of times they're full of crap.

But I know that rape and DV of men happen, especially in the queer community (because sadly it's easier for a man to be overtaken by another man), and that it does happen from women assailants too (but rarely).

But when it does, there's not a lot of reporting.