That sounds a lot easier than it is. I'm anovulatory, and have PCOS and all kinds of other infertility crap that will make it so that this is not an easy process, and is likely to take a long time and be emotionally difficult (and possibly very disappointing). The idea of going through all of that alone - fertility drugs, inseminations, getting hopes up, probable failed pregnancy tests, etc. etc. - is not something that I really want to go through. Nor do I want to plan and conceive a child without my wife. Would that ever be suggested to other couples?
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That sounds a lot easier than it is. I'm anovulatory, and have PCOS and all kinds of other infertility crap that will make it so that this is not an easy process, and is likely to take a long time and be emotionally difficult (and possibly very disappointing). The idea of going through all of that alone - fertility drugs, inseminations, getting hopes up, probable failed pregnancy tests, etc. etc. - is not something that I really want to go through. Nor do I want to plan and conceive a child without my wife. Would that ever be suggested to other couples?