Also, I wasn't trying to imply that it would be easy for you or that our way is in any way more difficult or whatever... I was really just trying to say that our situations are very different just because of who our partners are and how much they can, erm, contribute. (This is, of course, assuming that you don't have male factor issues.) So we're more dependent on the go-ahead of others, which gives us a little less control than we'd like sometimes.