I am so sorry Jude :( That's what happened to me both with my first pregnancy which I had one baby and it also died around 7 weeks and I had no idea until the ultrasound at 11 weeks. Then this pregnancy as you know I also had twins and lost the twin. It's a horrible feeling isn't it? I'm so sorry. My doctor told me the same thing and said some women will bleed out the miscarried baby and others will reabsorb it. My body reabsorbed it and they will need to take it out when I deliver. I'm not sure if it helps to hear any of this but I just want you to know you are not alone and I have been through this too. When I found out Ryan was out of town and it was so hard for me being without him. I am so glad you have Jen there with you. If it would help, you might want to join the miscarriage community> I set it up after my first miscarriage to get support. Since I've made lease the maintainer but I still do moderation. Sometimes it's nice just to post in a community to get some support.
Ryan looked it up and I believe they call it the "missing twin". He said from what he found it is pretty common thing to happen, probably especially in women like us with PCOS.
I am so glad that one baby is still ok. I remember when she told me, it was so hard to try to be happy while still feeling so sad at the same time. I just hope that this baby will stay in there happy & healthy. Try to stay positive if you can. Maybe those cds might help you.
I understand you don't want to talk about it right now, but if and when you do just know that I am here and will listen. I know how hard it is to have a miscarriage. I am so sorry :(
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Date: 2006-12-08 12:50 am (UTC)Ryan looked it up and I believe they call it the "missing twin". He said from what he found it is pretty common thing to happen, probably especially in women like us with PCOS.
I am so glad that one baby is still ok. I remember when she told me, it was so hard to try to be happy while still feeling so sad at the same time. I just hope that this baby will stay in there happy & healthy. Try to stay positive if you can. Maybe those cds might help you.
I understand you don't want to talk about it right now, but if and when you do just know that I am here and will listen. I know how hard it is to have a miscarriage. I am so sorry :(