It will still feel like a bad idea for a while when the baby comes. Honestly. It's going to get worse before it gets better BUT look at us we got through it when Charlotte came and we were crazy enough to sign up for one more trip LOL! The love my girls have for each other now just overwhelms me. Emma took Charlotte's hand the other day when we were walking her into her preschool classroom and said, "come on sissy". Melted my heart.