Because I love you very much and I know you have only good intentions, I will tell you that our sole decision, really, in choosing a donor was one with some of Jen's ethnic history, as well as her hair/eye color. That's all. Oh, and a healthy background.

But I'm also not sure why people (not just you, just that you put it here and besides, we're close enough that I trust you not to take this personally or have hurt feelings or think I'm mad or whatever) are so interested in who the man is or what he may/may not be like. After all, he has nothing to do with us or our plan to be parents. Jen and I are the only people anyone needs to worry about. :)