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judecorp ([personal profile] judecorp) wrote2006-12-12 03:11 pm

Here's the Update

So let's just cut to the chase: WE'RE STILL HAVING A BABY.

Holy crap, my blood pressure was probably through the roof on the way over there. We got into the ultrasound room and there was the baby, completely still, and I was nervously squinting for that little heart flicker. And there it was. I said to the tech, "It's not moving today," and she said, "Yeah, it's pretty quiet," and then as if on cue, the little dude lifted an arm and WAVED at us and then started moving all over the place, wiggling limbs and flipping around and even mooning us at one point. I started crying and laughing at the same time which totally messed up the ultrasound. Oops. Heartbeat was nice and strong at 175, and the baby measured 10w5d - actually catching up a little. (I am 10w6d today.)

Actually, it really couldn't have gone any better. Baby B's sac was still there and not messing with anything, the subchorionic hematoma was actually a little bit smaller, there was no other blood visible anywhere, some of the ovarian cysts had decreased in size - not the big one, but it didn't get any bigger.

Our midwife was running super late and we waited for a LONG time. She was MUCH more positive than the last one, wasn't too concerned that I was having the brown spotting especially as it is getting light and the red has stopped and the SCH got smaller. My blood pressure was super low (something like 108/54) and all I could think was, "It's a good thing you took it AFTER the ultrasound." My bloodwork from Thursday came back great - no anemia, good counts. She said the baby looked great, was measuring great, she wasn't too concerned with the cyst as long as it didn't get bigger, but she offered another ultrasound for next week if we wanted reassurance. I was ready to pass but Jen REALLY wants me to do it, so I will. She basically said that she expects that there is no reason we won't carry a healthy baby. It was SO different from the "You could go home and start cramping this evening" conversation.

She didn't want to do a pap because I'm still spotting, but she did want me to be screened for varicella and parvovirus because I'm a social worker and don't know if I've had either. She offered us the quad screen and nuchal testing, and Jen wants to do more research before we decide. I'm hesitant to do it because there are higher rates of false positives on the blood tests with twins, especially vanishing twins. The midwife said that if I was concerned about the false positives but did want to do the screen, we could arrange to have a genetics consult first before the screening to discuss falso positives. It's something to think about. I just REALLY don't want to get some kind of false positive and then end up getting pushed into CVS or amniocentesis which I really REALLY don't want to do.

So that's it. We have a squirming, living baby, measuring almost right on, looking great, MOONING US. Awesome.
10w6d

[identity profile] girlonthewire.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm so very happy!!!! i've been stalking your journal all day waiting for an update!! this really makes my day. yay for you and jen and the baby!!

[identity profile] hoo.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fantastic!

I called Veronica's ultrasound the 'Wizard of Oz Test', as it proved that the baby had a heart, a brain, guts and a home.

[identity profile] laserkitty.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
awesome

[identity profile] volumeat11.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing I can say that hasn't been said, except one thing...

Keep your fingers crossed. We're praying for you.

[identity profile] sudrin.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm totally getting you one of these:

http://www.jumper-med.com/angelsounds/index.htm

[identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com 2006-12-14 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a little scared of all of those home doppler things.

[identity profile] kcmedc.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
That's GREAT!!! What wonderful news. You have made my day! Thanks! I how comforting it is to see those little arms waving. I remember the first u/s of CJ I bawled like a baby. Congrats! That's wonderful!

[identity profile] aminahfiddler.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
whew... I've been thinking about you all day.

I'm letting out a big sigh of relief.

Now go and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy!!!!

[identity profile] sassywoman.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
You had me on pins and needles all afternoon! I seriously rushed in the door having to pee like a MOFO and ignored the problem to see how your baby was doing.
I am soooooooooooooooooooo happy for you and Jen (and baby too). I will continue to pray because so far it's working.

[identity profile] mellybabe.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
*grins*,i am so happy to read this!!!!!..youve been on my mind all day long..congrats to you two!!..YAY YAY YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[identity profile] amyura.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Jude,

I cannot even begin to describe how happy I am for the three of you!!!!!

My recommendation? Skip the tests unless you'd abort for certain defects. I wouldn't, and knowing wouldn't have changed anything.

[identity profile] gimmeapony.livejournal.com 2006-12-12 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so happy for you. :)

[identity profile] tea-soaked.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
Excellent! I am so happy to hear that all is well.

[identity profile] buddhafly4224.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
GOODGOODGOOD!

[identity profile] anitsirk.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
very very good. :)

[identity profile] andriagirlie.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
YAY!!!!!!!!

[identity profile] feathered.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so happy for both of you! Fantastic news!

[identity profile] prettyvacantone.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm just joining the crowd in a sigh of relief. I've been thinking about you for two days nonstop and this is SO what I wanted to hear. I almost cried when I saw it with relief. ***HUUUGGS***

[identity profile] hopemcg.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
*big exhale*

XOXOXOXO

(Anonymous) 2006-12-13 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Well thank fucking god for that! You girls have been on my mind big time while I've waited for news. Now all you have to worry about is how to assemble the baby furniture - a challenge for sure :-)

xxx Mermaidgrrrl

[identity profile] bafleyanne.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Yay!!! So glad to hear things are good. :)

Re: the quad screen, I wouldn't. It just causes needless stress IMHO.

[identity profile] rockymtnhigh.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
yay!!!! I'm so excited to hear that! Plus my fingers were starting to cramp up from being crossed, so I'm glad I can finally uncross them. Congratulations again and again and again!

[identity profile] zuzubailey76.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
Thank God. I'm so relieved for you and Jen!

[identity profile] indigodove.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
This is such good news, and I'm happy for ALL of you!

I'll keep praying anyway. :-)

So happy for you!

[identity profile] cappucinogrrl.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad to hear it. I was totally thinking happy baby thoughts your way like crazy. Whew. (Still will, of course.)

[identity profile] rachelmichellek.livejournal.com 2006-12-13 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
teh awesome.

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