Yeah, I totally know what you mean. It's crazy. And along with "beauty" always comes "weight." I mean, I've never been skinny skinny, always been a little bigger than most people, but smaller than other people. But it wasn't until I lost a ton of weight all at once that I got flooded with people telling me how "great" I looked. I mean, all the time! It was insane. I thought I looked pretty great before. ;)

I really hope my kid doesn't end up being one of those shallow people, but it's almost scarily unavoidable. I will do my best.