this is a tough call, and I'm so sorry that it's so stressful. It sounds like the money thing is really stressful, and that it's putting a bit of a strain on your relationship as well...that and the physical pain would be enough to make me toss in the towel. And here's the thing that's important--this doesn't make you a failure. It means that your body is sending you messages about what feels good and right. The important thing is that your baby loves you and that she's eating. I know that you'd prefer it if she was nursing, but in the end, the ultimate critical thing is that she's healthy and happy, that you are, too, and that there's a minimal amount of stress involved in this for both of you.

Does Jen have thoughts one way or the other?