My advice to both of them is the same: If it is meant to be, it WILL be. Through hell, high water, and separations of many more miles. If it doesn't last IT WAS NOT MEANT TO.
I know these things because I have been through hell, high water, broken trust, and 6,000 miles. And it is. I have also been through hell, high water, a jillion arguments and 1,100 miles. And that one was not. And is not. And I have no regrets, although I did not know at the time that I would not.
If you choose the relationship over yourself, you will lose yourself to the relationship. If you choose yourself, you will add yourself to the relationship.
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Date: 2002-05-12 10:58 am (UTC)My advice to both of them is the same: If it is meant to be, it WILL be. Through hell, high water, and separations of many more miles. If it doesn't last IT WAS NOT MEANT TO.
I know these things because I have been through hell, high water, broken trust, and 6,000 miles. And it is. I have also been through hell, high water, a jillion arguments and 1,100 miles. And that one was not. And is not. And I have no regrets, although I did not know at the time that I would not.
If you choose the relationship over yourself, you will lose yourself to the relationship. If you choose yourself, you will add yourself to the relationship.
It *IS* that easy, even if it seems so hard.