If you were drinking yourself stupid or running in front of cars or something, I might be worried about you. You ARE a caring and compassionate person and someone's outside judgement (or your own perhaps) of whether or not your grief is 'appropriate' is bunk. It is quite apparent you love your father and your family very much. Not allowing grief to consume you and swallow you whole does not denigrate that one ounce.
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Date: 2005-06-03 08:57 pm (UTC)If you were drinking yourself stupid or running in front of cars or something, I might be worried about you. You ARE a caring and compassionate person and someone's outside judgement (or your own perhaps) of whether or not your grief is 'appropriate' is bunk. It is quite apparent you love your father and your family very much. Not allowing grief to consume you and swallow you whole does not denigrate that one ounce.
I guess that's my $.02.
Take care of you. I'm thinking of you.