It's really not going to help your anxiety and stress level for you to add the fear that you're going to lose Jennifer. Just trust her right now to be able to take it. I'm sure she can.
And once this is all over, and you've calmed down, you can make it up to her somehow.
Relax. I know things are hard right now, but it will pass. This week will end. Your grandmother will have her birthday, whether or not you're able to make it "perfect," and I'm willing to bet she just wants to see you--not for you to make yourself nuts about it.
I know that I don't appreciate it when G. gets herself all wound up and stressed out because of me. You're not doing her or yourself any favors.
I promise you you will get through this. And if you need to vent by yelling at me, go ahead and do that. I'll still love you, too.
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Date: 2005-08-24 07:19 pm (UTC)It's really not going to help your anxiety and stress level for you to add the fear that you're going to lose Jennifer. Just trust her right now to be able to take it. I'm sure she can.
And once this is all over, and you've calmed down, you can make it up to her somehow.
Relax. I know things are hard right now, but it will pass. This week will end. Your grandmother will have her birthday, whether or not you're able to make it "perfect," and I'm willing to bet she just wants to see you--not for you to make yourself nuts about it.
I know that I don't appreciate it when G. gets herself all wound up and stressed out because of me. You're not doing her or yourself any favors.
I promise you you will get through this. And if you need to vent by yelling at me, go ahead and do that. I'll still love you, too.