Just a lesson I've learned the hard way. I've spent so much time chasing my career when what really is more important to me is my friends. I should have been making sure to be close to them this whole time because good, true friends are harder to come by (in my experience) than a job.
It's really sad to me to hear you guys agonizing over if you should live separately and if Jen should move to a place she doesn't want to go just so she can make more money. You are *married*! Can't you stay together in Massachusetts or at least stay together somewhere where you have close friends to support and love you even if it means a bit less money?
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Date: 2006-01-12 05:04 pm (UTC)It's really sad to me to hear you guys agonizing over if you should live separately and if Jen should move to a place she doesn't want to go just so she can make more money. You are *married*! Can't you stay together in Massachusetts or at least stay together somewhere where you have close friends to support and love you even if it means a bit less money?