Judecorp.

I saw a comment just made by your friend rizzo41 questioning if what you want is being considered here. I kind of agree with her. It seems like your voice isn't being heard. From what I am understanding, it sounds like you REALLY don't want to move to Florida at all - but does Jen really know this? If you're like me, and I know you're a libra so it's highly possible, you always put everyone else before you and feel guilty when you don't. All the decisions you make focus on others & not yourself. You don't want to tell her you don't want to move because it will hurt her, right? With this situation however, I think it's really important you tell her exactly how you feel. You don't want to move to Florida straight out tell her "I don't want to move to Florida". Tell her all the thins you've told me here. Maybe you could write it to her in a letter, I know that I can express myself better in writing. I think you should bring her to the comment you left me above and let her read it. Let her read the comment you made to rizzo41 too talking about how you worry about her & not getting the career she's always wanted. She needs to hear both sides. I worry if you don't tell her you will regret it the rest of your life.