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We're in Rhode Island. I'm sitting in my father's office, at my father's desk, using his ridiculously crappy computer.

We're here because my father is dying. In the next room, there is a pillow with blood on it, the pillow he was lying on when my grandfather (thankfully) found him yesterday morning when he didn't answer his phone.

Right now the only optimistic news is that we can still hope and pray for a miracle. The doctors don't really have anything good to say.

The latest news is that he may have had diabetes and not known it. His blood sugar was 1700 when he was admitted to the ER. They also say that the crux of the problem lies in several blood clots in his legs which are preventing his circulation. They operated last night and were able to remove a couple of big clots in his groin area which restored circulation to at least one thigh. Unfortunately it hasn't gotten any better than that and this lack of circulation is straining his already-damaged heart.

I will be picking my [livejournal.com profile] smurfbrother up from the airport in a little while. All of my thoughts are with him right now - I, too, know the pain of being in another part of the country in an emergency.

I ask that all of my friends send prayers and energy to my father, but also to my grandparents who are having a terrible time coping with this situation and what it entails. They are simply beside themselves, and Grandpa finding Dad on the floor has certainly not helped with that. It just breaks my heart to see them in so much pain. At least my father looks peaceful right now.

I have no idea what the future looks like anymore. I thought I had it all figured out, you know? We could end up living here and monitoring the Compound before we know it.

xoxo and hug your relatives for me,
Jude
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Date: 2005-06-01 05:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] grrlpower.livejournal.com
my thoughts are with you, Jude.

Date: 2005-06-02 05:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 00solstice.livejournal.com
hey, I wanted to let you know I read your most recent post and was thinking of you.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] everyday-fire.livejournal.com
Love and light to your family, I'll pray for you.

xo

Date: 2005-06-01 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kjtoo.livejournal.com
I'm very sorry to hear about your father's condition. I hope you and yours are able to stay strong, support one another, and don't give up on that miracle.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] humanbeatbox.livejournal.com
Our thoughts are with you guys - if ever there was going to be a miracle, I hope it's now.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yarnaddict.livejournal.com
I've started the prayer chain in California. My thoughts and love are with you and Jen and your family.

*HUGS*

If there's anything I can do from all the way on the left coast, let me know.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunshyne72.livejournal.com
Sorry to hear this news and for the pain you and your family are in. Sending good and hopeful thoughts to you.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wonderbreadwop.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking of you and your family.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dustyskinandall.livejournal.com
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
may all go the best that it can...

Date: 2005-06-01 05:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calledmara.livejournal.com
oh god, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll keep you in my thoughts. Please call if you need someone to talk to (I've been through this before myself).

Date: 2005-06-01 05:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sacharine.livejournal.com
i'm so sorry, hun. <3

Date: 2005-06-01 05:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dch4.livejournal.com
You're definitely in my thoughts, hon. If you need an ear, I believe you have the digits. If you don't for some reason, my cell is 919-389-5529.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ktmcda.livejournal.com
((((((((((jude & fam)))))))))))

i hope your dad is okay, jude.xo

Date: 2005-06-01 05:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] livinginoctober.livejournal.com
All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Much love to you and yours.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eight.livejournal.com
I know there are no words that could make this easier for you, but you and your family are in my thoughts.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pantsie.livejournal.com
*********good vibes***********

We are sending thoughts, love, and prayers to you and your family, jude.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cappucinogrrl.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry to hear it. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wendywoowho.livejournal.com
HOLY FUCK!

Jesus, Mary and Joseph!

Oh, HONEY.

*HUGS*

Praying for you all.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] krazyleesa.livejournal.com
Wow. I'm so sorry to hear about your father. I'll definately be sending good vibes your way. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Date: 2005-06-01 05:59 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] whuffle.livejournal.com
I'm praying. and if you need ANYTHING done, let me know. I may not have a job. But I have lots of time to help others because of it. So please, let me know if you need someone to do something like water plants or bring a timecard in to the office or drive one or the other of you down to RI. I have nothing but time and a will to make life easier for you if I can.

Peace and prayers and strength go with you all.

Date: 2005-06-01 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] folkyboy.livejournal.com
oh wow that's so friggin' sad! i am here sweetie, if you want to talk ¤hugs¤

Date: 2005-06-01 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] laserkitty.livejournal.com
Jude my thoughts are with you and your family. Love you hon.

Date: 2005-06-01 06:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_epiphany_girl_/
Oh my god. I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your dad.

Date: 2005-06-01 06:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] communista.livejournal.com
You and your family are in my thoughts.

Love you!!!

Date: 2005-06-01 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nikongirln70.livejournal.com
*hug hug hug*

i'm so sorry jude, i'll be thinking about you and your family and a miracle.

Date: 2005-06-01 06:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thinksnow.livejournal.com
You and your family are in my thoughts, Jude.
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