judecorp: (motherhood)
judecorp ([personal profile] judecorp) wrote2005-11-28 06:00 pm

I want my Mommy!

You know, I have fun when I'm babysitting, all the way up until it's time for bed. Then it is just SO exhausting.

E will just not go to sleep! She follows the whole bedtime routine perfectly - potty, pajamas, toothbrushing, two books... then all hell breaks loose. She just Will. Not. Sleep. She lays there, eyes wide, telling me she misses Mommy 873278723957 times. (And I know she misses Mommy, and I feel bad that she misses Mommy, but really, what can I do about it?)

I've tried almost everything... from cuddling and trying to make her feel better to explaining that Mommy will be home soon to ignoring her after the first couple of times to saying, "Shhh, time for sleep, no more talking" a million times to laying in bed next to her and reading a book. Sometimes she falls asleep eventually (bedtime is at 8 and the moms come home between 10 and 10:30 usually) and sometimes she is still awake when they get home.

It's just so exhausting. In fact, I'm now dreading going over there because I don't want another 2 hours of "I want my Mommy" when there isn't a dang thing I can do to help. It's not like I can mysteriously make Mommy come home, you know? (I tell them this is going on, that's really the best I can do.) It becomes so tedious and last week I really felt myself becoming irritated.

I need to think of another strategy, and quick, because I'm not up for that tonight.
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[identity profile] saldemonium.livejournal.com 2005-11-29 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Holy crap. I wonder if Mommy really does all that, or if the kiddo is just saying that to try to get you to do it. No wonder she gives you a hard time, if mommy coddles her that much. Man. O.o

[identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com 2005-11-29 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
No, Mommy does. Well, at least about the stroller thing, because I brought it up tonight. (I make sure to bring up all of our Drama incidents, because E is 3 and she will surely talk about them in the morning, so I want to give them a heads up.)

Tonight when Mommy came home I mentioned the stroller bit and how there was a full-on tantrum in the kitchen about it, and Mommy said, "Yeah, I have been bringing it up." I pointed to it down near the front door and said, "Well, tonight it decided to live downstairs." ;)

Mama's a little better with the limits, Mommy's a self-defined pushover.