1. I don't hold onto friends because it's a hassle to "break up" with them... but I /do/ hold onto some friendships longer than I should. I have a really hard time ending a friendship, even when it's not the greatest for me. And yeah, sometimes I do think that there are people out there who are friends with me, on whatever level, because it's too much work to "break up."
2. One. My body gets incredibly sensitive (painfully so) immediately following, and I just plain can't be touched in any way (pretty much anywhere except for a hug) for quite some time. I would probably calm down enough to do some reciprocal stuff and then have another go, but I don't think Jen would be up for that. (I could be wrong.)
3. Well, I know now! :) I was wondering what you thought!
4. I've tried a couple of drugs (Ecstacy, acid, cocaine) and they were okay... my sensible side isn't really all that cool about it, though. Control issues and all of that. Besides, I'm already ridiculous enough. Cigarette smoke (especially pot smoke) makes me incredibly ill.
5. I like so many love songs for so many different reasons! But I really love "Somebody" by Depeche Mode, "Magnolia Street" by Catie Curtis, and "Come What May" from Moulin Rouge and awful lot. But I also love 8745897982 more. I dig love songs. Hell, I even like "Still the One" by who is that? Shania?
I guess I don't really see alcohol in moderation as a drug, but I suppose it definitely is. So yeah, I guess I've done some drinking in my time, mostly during the college years. I don't drink at all right now, though.
1. Depends. There are definite levels of never-met "friends." Hell, Latvia, we've "known" each other now for like 10 years! There are a few people (yourself included) that I consider friends even though we've never met, but only a few. Others I consider a type of acquaintance. And others... well, they're not friends. Yanno?
2. Receiving. I mean, I like giving, too. But HELLO. Receiving.
3. "Don't Marry Her (Fuck Me)" by The Beautiful South
4. Acid. Too unpredictable.
5. I think having a child will be another joint "project" that will show us how well we can work together and how we are a team. I think I will appreciate her more, and I think that I will simply fall apart with love watching her nurture our child. And I think it will give us something else to argue about. ;)
6. I found out about LiveJournal because I had a friend (thespian) who was always talking about her LJ and trying to recruit others. I resisted for a while, but decided it could be a neat tool to blab. My friend Luke was a beta tester for Friendster and sent me an invite, so I became a beta tester, too. :)
1. Oh, honey, I am SO excited to buy a house in the valley and be your BFF. I hope it happens. I know Jen is REALLY nervous about not being able to get a good job there, and if an opportunity opens for her up here, I feel like I have to support her and go for it. But I /really/ want an opportunity to open up for her THERE, because I really feel like that's where my life is supposed to go! YAY!
2. It doesn't, usually. Which is a DAMNED SHAME. It doesn't usually work out for us biologically. I can go into greater detail in IM if you're really interested. But I miss it. A lot.
3. You know who I could totally be friends with, I think? Bitch. Or Michael Stipe.
4. I'm not the biggest fan of prescription meds, so of course I'm nervous about the Clomid - about side effects, about long-term effects, and especially about "what if it doesn't work"?
5. She is 100% committed to me and to our relationship. She never wavers. Never. It is amazing and powerful and she has been like that since the first second we even considered being together romantically.
6. Not anymore. Hell, I don't think I portray myself accurately in real land right now, either. Things are so effed up and in flux for me - have been since I left Columbus.
1. Friends. - Has there been a friend in your past who hurt you & you cut off the friendship? 2. Sex. - how many times a week do you have it? 3. Music. - What is your favorite song? 4. Drugs. - Do you think you would ever try any drugs again? If so, which ones? 5. Love. - When did you first figure out you were attracted more to women than men? (sorry that's not exactly a love question but I couldn't think of anything else) 6. Livejournal. - Do you have some people on your friends list you would like to remove but just can't?
1. Yes. When we were getting ready to move away from Columbus, Jen and I had a friend that I suppose we had a "falling out" with for whatever reason, and we've never heard from her again. And we had all been really good friends. :(
2. A week? Oh, I wish. We probably have sex twice a month, sometimes once a month, one time two whole months went by. This is sort of a sensitive issue for me because in a perfect world I would probably have sex 3-4 times/week.
3. Oh gosh, I have so many favorite songs! Two of my favorite favorites are "Nightswimming" by REM and "Hallelujah" done by Rufus Wainwright.
4. Nah, I can't see myself doing any more drugs again ever. I really like to be in control at all times. Heck, I don't even like taking cold medicines or whatever.
5. Well... good question. I am physically attracted to women and men. That's never changed. When I was younger, I preferred to date men over women because it was easier for me to have friendships with men; we related better. As I got older I cultivated strong friendships with women and really started relating better to women then men, which is good, because I've found that I'm more suited to being in a relationship with women. So in a way it's much more of a love question than you thought!
1. Friend from whom you have been permanently/indefinitely separated (he or she died, left the country, joined a cult, hopelessly lost touch) whom you miss most. 2. I gather you've had sex with guys. Did you EVER enjoy sex with guys or was it done purely as a favor/courtesy/chore? 3. Name a group I've never heard that I should. Preferably with music freely available online. 4. Ever again? 5. (can't think of any) 6. You have a huge friends list. And a lot of people respond to your posts. How do you find the time?
1. I keep in pretty good touch with a lot of people, which makes me very lucky. I'm bummed that Jean moved to France because I doubt I'll ever see her again, I suppose. I guess the one weird thing that happened is that I used to have this good friend (male) when I lived in Columbus, and one day out of nowhere he got ticked at me and hit me in the face and we never spoke again. I don't miss him, per se, but I definitely wonder what the heck happened.
2. I have indeed had sex with guys. And there are things that I enjoy about sex with guys - the closeness, the intimacy, the foreplay and arousal. I didn't really get off so much on the actual act most of the time, but I can't say all of the time... because sometimes I did. I was involved with this one dude that gave REALLY great oral. Yeah, that was good. :)
3. Have you heard The Flaming Lips? Because I definitely recommend them. Also Catie Curtis.
4. Nah. Not really my bag, baby.
5. (don't have an answer)
6. LJ is pretty much the only thing I do online - I don't read any forums, I'm not on any mailing lists, I don't read news or whatever... so all of my screentime is locked up in LJ. A lot of times my comments/e-mails will sit for a while, but I have enough downtime (I'm an early riser and a late go-to-bedder.) that I pull it off. Besides, I don't get NEARLY as many comments as I used to back in the day.
2. Reminds me of a friend who puts it this way: "I'm 100% straight, but I'll still get hard if a guy rubs my dick."
6. Wow, you have some true LJ-discipline. If there were an LJ black belt I think you'd get it. I sometimes "neglect" my all-important LJ duties for several days at a time, i.e. when travelling or very busy with work.
I don't like to talk on the phone, and I've moved away from so many good friends, that LJ is really one of my biggest ways to stay in touch with a lot of people and feel like I'm still in their lives, to any degree. So it's more for me and my heart than some sort of master plan of structure. When I go on vacation, I often don't LJ/use the computer at all... and I miss that connection.
And yeah, I think that I am totally capable of emotional attachment to men AND women... but when it comes to who I want to get my rocks off with, my choice is women. That doesn't mean that I couldn't have had another quality relationship with a guy... it just means we wouldn't have had sex much. ;)
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Date: 2006-03-10 01:06 am (UTC)2. Sex - what's your average amount of orgasms per diddle?
3. Music - Did you know that I loved all of the songs you sent me? Sorry I never responded to that.
4. Drugs - what's your take?
5. Love - What's your favorite love song.
6. Livejournal - I have no idea. Say something.
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Date: 2006-03-10 02:57 am (UTC)2. One. My body gets incredibly sensitive (painfully so) immediately following, and I just plain can't be touched in any way (pretty much anywhere except for a hug) for quite some time. I would probably calm down enough to do some reciprocal stuff and then have another go, but I don't think Jen would be up for that. (I could be wrong.)
3. Well, I know now! :) I was wondering what you thought!
4. I've tried a couple of drugs (Ecstacy, acid, cocaine) and they were okay... my sensible side isn't really all that cool about it, though. Control issues and all of that. Besides, I'm already ridiculous enough. Cigarette smoke (especially pot smoke) makes me incredibly ill.
5. I like so many love songs for so many different reasons! But I really love "Somebody" by Depeche Mode, "Magnolia Street" by Catie Curtis, and "Come What May" from Moulin Rouge and awful lot. But I also love 8745897982 more. I dig love songs. Hell, I even like "Still the One" by who is that? Shania?
6. I love you!
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Date: 2006-03-11 06:31 am (UTC)Hmm, suspiciously left out ETOH...
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Date: 2006-03-11 12:55 pm (UTC)no subject
2. Giving or receiving? Honestly.
3. What song makes you think of me? (The Narcissism Tango? haha.)
4. Which drug have you tried that you liked the least?
5. How do you think having a child will affect your love for Jen?
6. Hey. You got me started on both Friendster and Livejournal. How did you find out about them?
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Date: 2006-03-10 09:33 pm (UTC)2. Receiving. I mean, I like giving, too. But HELLO. Receiving.
3. "Don't Marry Her (Fuck Me)" by The Beautiful South
4. Acid. Too unpredictable.
5. I think having a child will be another joint "project" that will show us how well we can work together and how we are a team. I think I will appreciate her more, and I think that I will simply fall apart with love watching her nurture our child. And I think it will give us something else to argue about. ;)
6. I found out about LiveJournal because I had a friend (
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Date: 2006-03-10 05:32 pm (UTC)2. how often does oral figure in to your sex?
3. what musician do you fantasize you could really be friends with if given the chance?
4. what are your feelings about going on Clomid?
5. what is your number 1 favorite quality that Jen has?
6. do you think you portray yourself accurately in lj land?
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Date: 2006-03-10 09:43 pm (UTC)2. It doesn't, usually. Which is a DAMNED SHAME. It doesn't usually work out for us biologically. I can go into greater detail in IM if you're really interested. But I miss it. A lot.
3. You know who I could totally be friends with, I think? Bitch. Or Michael Stipe.
4. I'm not the biggest fan of prescription meds, so of course I'm nervous about the Clomid - about side effects, about long-term effects, and especially about "what if it doesn't work"?
5. She is 100% committed to me and to our relationship. She never wavers. Never. It is amazing and powerful and she has been like that since the first second we even considered being together romantically.
6. Not anymore. Hell, I don't think I portray myself accurately in real land right now, either. Things are so effed up and in flux for me - have been since I left Columbus.
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Date: 2006-03-11 04:48 am (UTC)2. Sex. - how many times a week do you have it?
3. Music. - What is your favorite song?
4. Drugs. - Do you think you would ever try any drugs again? If so, which ones?
5. Love. - When did you first figure out you were attracted more to women than men? (sorry that's not exactly a love question but I couldn't think of anything else)
6. Livejournal. - Do you have some people on your friends list you would like to remove but just can't?
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Date: 2006-03-11 01:02 pm (UTC)2. A week? Oh, I wish. We probably have sex twice a month, sometimes once a month, one time two whole months went by. This is sort of a sensitive issue for me because in a perfect world I would probably have sex 3-4 times/week.
3. Oh gosh, I have so many favorite songs! Two of my favorite favorites are "Nightswimming" by REM and "Hallelujah" done by Rufus Wainwright.
4. Nah, I can't see myself doing any more drugs again ever. I really like to be in control at all times. Heck, I don't even like taking cold medicines or whatever.
5. Well... good question. I am physically attracted to women and men. That's never changed. When I was younger, I preferred to date men over women because it was easier for me to have friendships with men; we related better. As I got older I cultivated strong friendships with women and really started relating better to women then men, which is good, because I've found that I'm more suited to being in a relationship with women. So in a way it's much more of a love question than you thought!
6. Yes. YES! But you are not one of them. :)
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Date: 2006-03-11 06:39 am (UTC)1. Friend from whom you have been permanently/indefinitely separated (he or she died, left the country, joined a cult, hopelessly lost touch) whom you miss most.
2. I gather you've had sex with guys. Did you EVER enjoy sex with guys or was it done purely as a favor/courtesy/chore?
3. Name a group I've never heard that I should. Preferably with music freely available online.
4. Ever again?
5. (can't think of any)
6. You have a huge friends list. And a lot of people respond to your posts. How do you find the time?
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Date: 2006-03-11 01:08 pm (UTC)2. I have indeed had sex with guys. And there are things that I enjoy about sex with guys - the closeness, the intimacy, the foreplay and arousal. I didn't really get off so much on the actual act most of the time, but I can't say all of the time... because sometimes I did. I was involved with this one dude that gave REALLY great oral. Yeah, that was good. :)
3. Have you heard The Flaming Lips? Because I definitely recommend them. Also Catie Curtis.
4. Nah. Not really my bag, baby.
5. (don't have an answer)
6. LJ is pretty much the only thing I do online - I don't read any forums, I'm not on any mailing lists, I don't read news or whatever... so all of my screentime is locked up in LJ. A lot of times my comments/e-mails will sit for a while, but I have enough downtime (I'm an early riser and a late go-to-bedder.) that I pull it off. Besides, I don't get NEARLY as many comments as I used to back in the day.
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Date: 2006-03-11 02:53 pm (UTC)6. Wow, you have some true LJ-discipline. If there were an LJ black belt I think you'd get it. I sometimes "neglect" my all-important LJ duties for several days at a time, i.e. when travelling or very busy with work.
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Date: 2006-03-11 10:13 pm (UTC)And yeah, I think that I am totally capable of emotional attachment to men AND women... but when it comes to who I want to get my rocks off with, my choice is women. That doesn't mean that I couldn't have had another quality relationship with a guy... it just means we wouldn't have had sex much. ;)