Flashback, June 2004

[judecorp]

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Jen and I had just moved to Boston a few weeks prior, but we splurged and spent gaggles of money that we didn't have (we didn't have jobs yet) to get 4 tickets to an afternoon Red Sox game - Father's Day presents for my father and grandfather. Grandpa, Dad, my brother and I caught at least one Sox game every summer with the Freemasons and numerous games in Pawtucket (Red Sox AA team) when I was a young person. The Masons stopped taking trips when I was a teenager because it was getting too expensive.

At the time, it seemed so important to do this, to buy these tickets and convince my dad to drive my grandfather up, because we didn't know if we'd ever get another chance to go to a game with my grandfather. He's 88, after all, and though he is pretty healthy you just never know. We didn't want to miss an opportunity to have a Fenway Father's Day with Grandpa and regret it later.

I didn't know how wrong and how right I was. The Sox finally won a World Series in 2004 and the team was positively on fire. The crowd was crazy. We had a great time. It was the last Father's Day gift I would ever buy for my Dad.

And I think it was possibly his favorite.

Comments

[jodied.livejournal.com]

My dad was on disability before he died, and didn't have a lot of money. The Christmas before he died, I bought him a pre-paid cell phone, since I was all cool with a job out of college. He died about 4 weeks later. That present made him happy, though.

There must be something we sense about last holidays before they go.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

Yeah, and I think it's all part of getting older, too - that you start to think further ahead. That's cool about the cell phone. I bet your dad felt like a superstar.

[odd-dog.livejournal.com]

awww that's sweet. Hugs to you today, babe.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

Woah, hugs AND boobs. Good day!

[kat-chan.livejournal.com]

I wish I could buy an Indians World Series win for my dad and his brothers. The last time they won, my dad was 10, his older brother was 12 and his younger brother was 5. The younger uncle has a rare form of leukemia, and he can't remember a time when the Indians were the champs. I want him to be able to experience that. I want my dad and his older brother to experience it again. I know how happy I was the first time the Pats won the Super Bowl, and I want that for them.

[And not to nitpick, but the PawSox were/are AAA. I know this, because we'd go to the Bristol Red Sox games at that same time, and they were the AA team. Saw Boggs and Gedman play AA ball. One of my brothers has the programs they autographed for us.]

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

My dad dug the Indians, too, probably because they were underdogs. His best friend was also a closet Cubs fan, because really, who can hate the Cubs? Sometimes when certain teams win, even if they're not your teams, it's cool because they deserve it. You know?

And you are 100% right about the PawSox. They are totally AAA and I dropped an A there in typing. :)

[kat-chan.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I was always trying to figure out, as a kid, why Pawtucket had the AAA team and Bristol only had the AA team. After all, Bristol was much cooler, and people had heard of it! ;) The only reason I could ever come up with, even to this day, is that Pawtucket is just closer to Boston.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

And Providence. Maybe it's just more accessible than Bristol?

I've never been to Bristol.

[carina-s.livejournal.com]

I am realizing more than ever that it's more important to go with instinct (and to have a good time because I think that's one of the things we're here for). I'm sad because I know you must be missing your dad, but I'm thankful that you were able to spend that special time with him as well.

*hugs*

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

I definitely agree with you on all counts. I think that instincts are incredibly important, and that people aren't advised enough to trust them... especially parents. When did it become commonplace for people to NOT trust their parental instincts? Argh!

[sassywoman.livejournal.com]

What a beautiful and lasting memory you will have. :)

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

Indeed. :)

[rachelmichellek.livejournal.com]

awww.

i miss your dad too.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

He always spoke fondly of you.

[ladyoracle.livejournal.com]

My Dad died almost a year ago, so I really, REALLY know what you mean.

((hugs))

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

*hugs* to you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[whirledpeas.livejournal.com]

I thought of you yesterday.

Thought about how sad I am now that I couldn't REALLY REALLY be there for you when you were going through this last year. I was such a mess after the breakup...it's a bit of a blurr to me now.

I'm glad I was able to give you a good hug through it all, though...PERSONALLY...

i miss you

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

You know what, don't even worry about it. In a lot of ways it helped to have you around and to be able to help YOU with stuff at the same time, you know? I wish I had been more available to help you out with the break-up as well.
:)