Because there is never enough suckage
Jun. 5th, 2006 07:49 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Jen and I were sitting on the couch talking while I was waiting to go to book club and we heard a bit of a commotion out on the street. It really seemed to show no signs of stopping so we did what any self-respecting Nosey Parkers would do, and went to the window. An obviously intoxicated man was shouting at a man in another car, things like, "Don't park in front of my g-d house!" or whatever. The man in the car was just trying to get away; he had obviously parked in order to take the T to work.
This continued, and when the car guy started driving off, the drunk guy hit the back of his (nice) car. Still yelling. He kicked the car. Still yelling. The dude tried to drive away some more and Drunk Guy went to the side of the car to yell into the (closed) window. At this point, dude started getting pissed and did a little back up maneuver to try to scare Drunk Guy, who got more pissed and then punched the front of the car. At this point, dude makes a motion like he's going to hit Drunk Guy with his car and Drunk Guy starts screaming some more, so dude starts to drive up, turning right down the street that runs perpendicular to our street, right in front of our house.
Drunk Guy chases after him and, no joke, pulls a bottle of booze out from the back waist of his pants and chucks it at dude's car. Only he's drunk, right? So instead, the bottle smashes into our trunk and back window, shattering the back window, denting and scratching the trunk, and spraying cheap vodka and broken glass throughout the interior of our car. So I yell, "YOU HIT MY FUCKING CAR!" at him through the window and then proceed to run downstairs while dialing the police.
While I am running downstairs, dude decides he's had quite enough of Drunk Guy and gets out of his car, grabs some bricks from a sidewalk, and begins pummeling the crap out of Drunk Guy. Then when Drunk Guy is down, he starts kicking him like woah. Then he drives off, the police come. Drunk Guy is walking down the street bleeding everywhere and I flag down the police car.
Eventually we (and another witness) give our statements and Drunk Guy goes by ambulance to the hospital. But before he gets to this point he was nice enough to slur and bleed all around me while he apologizes for damaging our car but "he got hit and there was so much blood he couldn't see." (This is comical because he got hit AFTER he hit our car. And I'm stupid enough to have decided to point this out to him. So he came closer to me with all of his drunk blood and I got to say, "Don't touch me!")
So the police take a report of vandalism and now if we want to have the trunk dent/scratches fixed we have to pay a $500 deductible. I guess the glass doesn't have a deductible. And I'm hoping our insurance won't go up since it wasn't our fault, but I'm dubious.
Another day, another incident with the car in the neighborhood. I have to walk to work in the morning for play group and then cancel all of my afternoon visits and walk home, since the window people won't be able to come until tomorrow afternoon. The car has been backed into my neighbor's driveway, the people I used to babysit for, and hopefully nothing will get stolen. But I wouldn't be surprised at this point.
I really would like to know why our lives have to suck so badly. I think we're good people, you know?
This continued, and when the car guy started driving off, the drunk guy hit the back of his (nice) car. Still yelling. He kicked the car. Still yelling. The dude tried to drive away some more and Drunk Guy went to the side of the car to yell into the (closed) window. At this point, dude started getting pissed and did a little back up maneuver to try to scare Drunk Guy, who got more pissed and then punched the front of the car. At this point, dude makes a motion like he's going to hit Drunk Guy with his car and Drunk Guy starts screaming some more, so dude starts to drive up, turning right down the street that runs perpendicular to our street, right in front of our house.
Drunk Guy chases after him and, no joke, pulls a bottle of booze out from the back waist of his pants and chucks it at dude's car. Only he's drunk, right? So instead, the bottle smashes into our trunk and back window, shattering the back window, denting and scratching the trunk, and spraying cheap vodka and broken glass throughout the interior of our car. So I yell, "YOU HIT MY FUCKING CAR!" at him through the window and then proceed to run downstairs while dialing the police.
While I am running downstairs, dude decides he's had quite enough of Drunk Guy and gets out of his car, grabs some bricks from a sidewalk, and begins pummeling the crap out of Drunk Guy. Then when Drunk Guy is down, he starts kicking him like woah. Then he drives off, the police come. Drunk Guy is walking down the street bleeding everywhere and I flag down the police car.
Eventually we (and another witness) give our statements and Drunk Guy goes by ambulance to the hospital. But before he gets to this point he was nice enough to slur and bleed all around me while he apologizes for damaging our car but "he got hit and there was so much blood he couldn't see." (This is comical because he got hit AFTER he hit our car. And I'm stupid enough to have decided to point this out to him. So he came closer to me with all of his drunk blood and I got to say, "Don't touch me!")
So the police take a report of vandalism and now if we want to have the trunk dent/scratches fixed we have to pay a $500 deductible. I guess the glass doesn't have a deductible. And I'm hoping our insurance won't go up since it wasn't our fault, but I'm dubious.
Another day, another incident with the car in the neighborhood. I have to walk to work in the morning for play group and then cancel all of my afternoon visits and walk home, since the window people won't be able to come until tomorrow afternoon. The car has been backed into my neighbor's driveway, the people I used to babysit for, and hopefully nothing will get stolen. But I wouldn't be surprised at this point.
I really would like to know why our lives have to suck so badly. I think we're good people, you know?
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Date: 2006-06-05 11:56 pm (UTC)I think eeka just ran into a similar problem with her car getting hit, but her insurance company would waive the deductable if they knew who it was that did it (in her case the car was hit, but the neighbor didn't get a plate number), so you might be okay.
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Date: 2006-06-08 02:35 am (UTC)I strongly suggest small claims. It's good shit.
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Date: 2006-06-06 12:04 am (UTC)I just want to cry for a million years.
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Date: 2006-06-06 12:11 am (UTC)Can you get the sperm in time?
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Date: 2006-06-06 12:23 am (UTC)I'm supposed to go see an acupuncturist for an initial consult on Thursday. Maybe she can find a way to acupuncture my way to a better life! ;)
The sperm will come in time. Ultrasound today found 2 12mm follicles on the left and one possibly 10.5mm follicle on the right. I'll probably only end up with one good one (that's pretty much how my body has been responding to Clomid) but even that won't be for a while. I go in for repeat ultrasound on Wednesday morning... sperm should arrive Wednesday afternoon, but we won't be IUIing until Friday at the earliest.
Fertility Friend gave me hashed crosshairs because my temp has been up a bit the past couple of days, and I REALLY want them to go away. I don't like it telling me I ovulated already!
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Date: 2006-06-06 12:43 am (UTC)I hope your acupuncture does help.
Well that IS good news that the sperm will come in time then! At least something is good! :)
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Date: 2006-06-06 01:29 am (UTC)The insurance deductible seems like a slam-dunk in small claims court if you can muster the time and the filing fee. That's not always easy though, I know. If you do it, be sure to add "court costs" to the amount you sue for, and possibly "loss of income" for any days off work you have to take.
You are good people.
I so wish life were the least bit fair.
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Date: 2006-06-08 01:18 am (UTC)Also, I got a good chuckle about crying to HMO people. I tried that once and I didn't get anywhere, but maybe I'm not a good enough crier.
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Date: 2006-06-06 02:28 am (UTC)I know this must not be funny to you, but it was to me- if only because that's about the only good thing I can think of about this situation.
*hugs*
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Date: 2006-06-08 01:19 am (UTC)(Thankfully we got the window replaced yesterday when it was just sprinkling.)
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Date: 2006-06-06 10:44 am (UTC)You'll funk out of it, too. Because you are good people.
(Selfish-and-not-new-note: move out to the sticks. We'll help.)
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Date: 2006-06-08 01:21 am (UTC)p.s. It would be awfully hard to get to our jobs if we moved to the sticks. So you should procure a high-paying job for my wife and we'll do it.
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Date: 2006-06-06 11:19 am (UTC)just wow.
*hugs*
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Date: 2006-06-07 12:42 am (UTC)getting a car window replaced sucks.
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Date: 2006-06-08 01:22 am (UTC)Sigh. I need an "I have no money, dudes" icon.
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Date: 2006-06-07 04:50 pm (UTC)Janet
fondofsnape@gmail.com
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Date: 2006-06-08 01:26 am (UTC)Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-07 04:51 pm (UTC)Dorchester is highly, highly over-rated. Let the OFD's stay here, I want out so bad. I'll never, ever live in the ghetto again.
Good Riddance to Dorchester.
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-07 05:33 pm (UTC)I am so sorry this happened to you. Were you at least able to do something so that with all this rain, your interior isn't soaked beyond repair?
Oh, and I linked over from universal hub, have spoken with you over in b0st0n before... I'm not some creepy stalker or anything. ;)
Again, I am so sorry, and I hope that everything works out for you. When it does, do let me know... I *need* to hear about good people not getting the shit end of the stick!!
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-08 01:25 am (UTC)Where in Dorchester do you live? We live sort of in between Codman Square and Melville Park.
As for the rain, we got the rear windshield replaced yesterday THANKFULLY because the heavens opened and the dogs and cats have been raining down ever since! But our trunk has a dent and a big scratch which I am SO not pleased with, but that will require a deductible to fix. Sigh.
Thanks for posting. I recognize your name from
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-08 04:48 am (UTC)That sucks about the dent & deductable though. :(
I know there are some good parts of Dorchester, and this part probably isn't evenb THAT bad, it's more of a crappy apartment/landlord situation. I'm on the South Boston line, close to Andrew Square.
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-11 12:21 pm (UTC)Are you planning on moving soon? Where to?
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-11 05:18 pm (UTC)I *wish* I could move soon... I have section 8, and like...no money... so I need to find someplace... but I just don't know where to look just yet.
I need a few specific amenities that I won't ever back down on again. Hahaha.
Oh, and what's an OFD?
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-12 02:30 am (UTC)But ugh, yeah, if you're looking for affordable housing, good luck. Totally sucks and I feel for you. Good luck with that.
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-12 04:01 am (UTC)Yeah, affordable= damn near impossible.:(
Re: Drunk Guy
Date: 2006-06-08 01:25 am (UTC)We're thinking of moving further out. Like Winthrop.