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car damage 06-05-06
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Jen and I were sitting on the couch talking while I was waiting to go to book club and we heard a bit of a commotion out on the street. It really seemed to show no signs of stopping so we did what any self-respecting Nosey Parkers would do, and went to the window. An obviously intoxicated man was shouting at a man in another car, things like, "Don't park in front of my g-d house!" or whatever. The man in the car was just trying to get away; he had obviously parked in order to take the T to work.

This continued, and when the car guy started driving off, the drunk guy hit the back of his (nice) car. Still yelling. He kicked the car. Still yelling. The dude tried to drive away some more and Drunk Guy went to the side of the car to yell into the (closed) window. At this point, dude started getting pissed and did a little back up maneuver to try to scare Drunk Guy, who got more pissed and then punched the front of the car. At this point, dude makes a motion like he's going to hit Drunk Guy with his car and Drunk Guy starts screaming some more, so dude starts to drive up, turning right down the street that runs perpendicular to our street, right in front of our house.

Drunk Guy chases after him and, no joke, pulls a bottle of booze out from the back waist of his pants and chucks it at dude's car. Only he's drunk, right? So instead, the bottle smashes into our trunk and back window, shattering the back window, denting and scratching the trunk, and spraying cheap vodka and broken glass throughout the interior of our car. So I yell, "YOU HIT MY FUCKING CAR!" at him through the window and then proceed to run downstairs while dialing the police.

While I am running downstairs, dude decides he's had quite enough of Drunk Guy and gets out of his car, grabs some bricks from a sidewalk, and begins pummeling the crap out of Drunk Guy. Then when Drunk Guy is down, he starts kicking him like woah. Then he drives off, the police come. Drunk Guy is walking down the street bleeding everywhere and I flag down the police car.

Eventually we (and another witness) give our statements and Drunk Guy goes by ambulance to the hospital. But before he gets to this point he was nice enough to slur and bleed all around me while he apologizes for damaging our car but "he got hit and there was so much blood he couldn't see." (This is comical because he got hit AFTER he hit our car. And I'm stupid enough to have decided to point this out to him. So he came closer to me with all of his drunk blood and I got to say, "Don't touch me!")

So the police take a report of vandalism and now if we want to have the trunk dent/scratches fixed we have to pay a $500 deductible. I guess the glass doesn't have a deductible. And I'm hoping our insurance won't go up since it wasn't our fault, but I'm dubious.

Another day, another incident with the car in the neighborhood. I have to walk to work in the morning for play group and then cancel all of my afternoon visits and walk home, since the window people won't be able to come until tomorrow afternoon. The car has been backed into my neighbor's driveway, the people I used to babysit for, and hopefully nothing will get stolen. But I wouldn't be surprised at this point.

I really would like to know why our lives have to suck so badly. I think we're good people, you know?

Date: 2006-06-05 11:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jodied.livejournal.com
Agrh! That's awful!

I think eeka just ran into a similar problem with her car getting hit, but her insurance company would waive the deductable if they knew who it was that did it (in her case the car was hit, but the neighbor didn't get a plate number), so you might be okay.

Date: 2006-06-06 12:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Well, except that a CAR didn't hit us, a dude threw a bottle at it. So it's not like our car insurance can go after his car insurance or something. Hopefully the police report has Drunk Guy's name on it, but it's not like they're going to sue him for our deductible. They insurance company already told us on the phone that we'd have to pay the deductible for the trunk.

Date: 2006-06-06 12:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadefu.livejournal.com
But couldn't you sue his ass? I think $500 is still low enough to go in small claims court.

Date: 2006-06-08 01:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
If I thought he might have $500 and it would be worth the lost work, maybe.

Date: 2006-06-07 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eeka13.livejournal.com
Right, I asked my insurance company if I could call it vandalism, and they said vandalism also has a deductable, unless someone's convicted of the vandalism. And yeah, $500 can be done in small claims.

Date: 2006-06-08 01:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Yeah, they told us the same thing - that it wouldn't be our fault because it was vandalism, but that we would have to pay the deductible to make any repairs. And sure, we can try to sue the dude, but he sure didn't look like he would be able to come up with the $$ even if we DID get the judgment (which we probably would).

Date: 2006-06-08 02:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eeka13.livejournal.com
If you sue someone in small claims and they don't pay, you can have a capias issued so the sheriff goes to their house and demands that they pay or get arrested. If they can't pay, they get arrested and enter into a settlement where they mop the floor of the courtroom until you're paid off or something.

I strongly suggest small claims. It's good shit.

Date: 2006-06-11 12:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Apparently Drunk Guy went up to my downstairs neighbor and says he (or his mom? i got confused) wants to "make good" on what happened. As far as I know, this dude doesn't have any money so I'm sure not going to pay for repairs and wait for him to reimburse me. I'll go get an estimate and send it his way, then I'll see what happens.

Date: 2006-06-05 11:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] estrange.livejournal.com
Gosh that really sucks I'm sorry.

Date: 2006-06-06 12:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I am just so tired of everything going wrong. We just dropped $1500 on sperm this morning and then Jen spent $450 on prescriptions at the pharmacy since she doesn't have her new insurance card (her company changed insurance) yet.

I just want to cry for a million years.

Date: 2006-06-06 12:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] estrange.livejournal.com
Try not to get too stressed out. remember all the good advice you gave me when I was going through my infertility treatments & stressed. Try to relax - take a bath or listen to relaxation cds or something if you can.

Can you get the sperm in time?

Date: 2006-06-06 12:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I don't own any relaxation CDs! (I'm not a very good relaxer, trying to relax makes me anxious.) I could take a bath I suppose. Really, I wish I'd been able to go to book club because then I would have been distracted by yummy food and a good book. Aah well.

I'm supposed to go see an acupuncturist for an initial consult on Thursday. Maybe she can find a way to acupuncture my way to a better life! ;)

The sperm will come in time. Ultrasound today found 2 12mm follicles on the left and one possibly 10.5mm follicle on the right. I'll probably only end up with one good one (that's pretty much how my body has been responding to Clomid) but even that won't be for a while. I go in for repeat ultrasound on Wednesday morning... sperm should arrive Wednesday afternoon, but we won't be IUIing until Friday at the earliest.

Fertility Friend gave me hashed crosshairs because my temp has been up a bit the past couple of days, and I REALLY want them to go away. I don't like it telling me I ovulated already!

Date: 2006-06-06 12:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] estrange.livejournal.com
If you would like some relaxation cds I can certainly send some to you. Of course you said it makes you anxious so maybe not?

I hope your acupuncture does help.

Well that IS good news that the sperm will come in time then! At least something is good! :)

Date: 2006-06-08 01:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
If you wanted to send some CDs, I would be sure to give them a listen!

Date: 2006-06-06 12:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lemur68.livejournal.com
Without ignoring the gravity of the situation, I'd like to point out that I'm amused that you censored "goddamn" but not "FUCKING". :)

Date: 2006-06-06 12:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I got a chuckle about that in the re-read, so I let it stick. I think originally I was going to censor and then changed my mind. And hey, I like God. And I like fucking. ;)

Date: 2006-06-06 12:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drainbead.livejournal.com
Did the cops file charges on drunk guy?

Date: 2006-06-06 12:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I do believe I heard them saying that he was getting a bunch of citations, like drunk and disorderly and stuff. We have to go to the police station to get the police report, and I will probably do that when I walk home from work tomorrow (it's sort of on the way)... when I am there I will ask them about charges for the vandalism. The cops pretty much knew that this guy (whose name, according to The Movie Thief, is apparently Dave) caused the whole thing. So who knows?

Date: 2006-06-06 12:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] laserkitty.livejournal.com
Holy Crap!

Date: 2006-06-06 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I know! I am so sick of this crap!

Date: 2006-06-06 12:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sassywoman.livejournal.com
Oh my. What a horrible incident. I am so sorry you had to witness all of this. Some people just suck!

Date: 2006-06-08 01:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I know! I don't understand what is up with people!

Date: 2006-06-06 01:29 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] skreeky
Keep the pharmacy receipt. I'm sure there's a way to get reimbursed if she's paid for coverage and just didn't have her card yet. If you keep the receipt you can figure it out after she's not totally sick and you're not totally stressed. (Then again, toatlly stressed may help, since I've found crying on the phone to be more effective with HMO reps than rational arguments.)

The insurance deductible seems like a slam-dunk in small claims court if you can muster the time and the filing fee. That's not always easy though, I know. If you do it, be sure to add "court costs" to the amount you sue for, and possibly "loss of income" for any days off work you have to take.

You are good people.

I so wish life were the least bit fair.

Date: 2006-06-08 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Oh, I'm not worried that we would lose in small claims court if we went that route... I'm more worried that the guy wouldn't be able to pay and we would get a judgment but no $$. I know that if his name is on the police report (haven't gotten it yet), the insurance company might try to go after him. Not sure. But I think we're still responsible for the deductible.

Also, I got a good chuckle about crying to HMO people. I tried that once and I didn't get anywhere, but maybe I'm not a good enough crier.

Date: 2006-06-06 02:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carina-s.livejournal.com
I was telling Scott about this, and he said, thank goodness it's summer time.

I know this must not be funny to you, but it was to me- if only because that's about the only good thing I can think of about this situation.

*hugs*

Date: 2006-06-08 01:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
It's springtime here, and we're in the middle of a HUGE rainy patch. We're supposed to get 3-5" of rain just today!

(Thankfully we got the window replaced yesterday when it was just sprinkling.)

Date: 2006-06-06 02:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gimmeapony.livejournal.com
Oh GOD, Jude. I am so fucking sorry. That's so incredibly screwed up.

Date: 2006-06-08 01:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I need to get the hell out of this town.

Date: 2006-06-06 10:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] volumeat11.livejournal.com
You are good people. If I knew why it sucked so bad right now, I'd tell you. We hit a streak of suck at the end of 2005-beginning of 2006 that we eventually funked out of.

You'll funk out of it, too. Because you are good people.

(Selfish-and-not-new-note: move out to the sticks. We'll help.)

Date: 2006-06-08 01:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
God I hope you're right. Things have been pretty craptacular for us since we moved here, but it's definitely intensified since June 1, 2005.

p.s. It would be awfully hard to get to our jobs if we moved to the sticks. So you should procure a high-paying job for my wife and we'll do it.

Date: 2006-06-06 11:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snack.livejournal.com
wow.

just wow.

*hugs*

Date: 2006-06-08 01:21 am (UTC)

Date: 2006-06-06 12:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stapynam.livejournal.com
unbelievable!

Date: 2006-06-08 01:21 am (UTC)

Date: 2006-06-07 12:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] odd-dog.livejournal.com
ugh.

getting a car window replaced sucks.

Date: 2006-06-08 01:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Thankfully replacing windows does not have a deductible. I'm more worried about the big gash in our trunk, because there IS a deductible for that.

Sigh. I need an "I have no money, dudes" icon.

Date: 2006-06-07 04:50 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I thought MA insurance covers glass replacement 100%...no deductible. It did for me recently, anyway...

Janet
fondofsnape@gmail.com

Date: 2006-06-08 01:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Yes, we don't have a deductible for the windshield, just if we try to repair the damage to the trunk.

Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-07 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I feel for you. I live in Dorchester, I think I'm a good person, too, but I'm at my wits end living here.
Dorchester is highly, highly over-rated. Let the OFD's stay here, I want out so bad. I'll never, ever live in the ghetto again.

Good Riddance to Dorchester.

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-07 05:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magickcat.livejournal.com
Oh my gosh. I am so sorry. And I agree with anoymous here. I live here too and I want out NOW!! (okay, I want out...3 years ago, but whatever)
I am so sorry this happened to you. Were you at least able to do something so that with all this rain, your interior isn't soaked beyond repair?

Oh, and I linked over from universal hub, have spoken with you over in b0st0n before... I'm not some creepy stalker or anything. ;)

Again, I am so sorry, and I hope that everything works out for you. When it does, do let me know... I *need* to hear about good people not getting the shit end of the stick!!

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-08 01:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I actually really like Dorchester, and aside from the vandalism to the car, I have always loved our neighborhood. Our apartment is really amazing and we will never find another one like it!

Where in Dorchester do you live? We live sort of in between Codman Square and Melville Park.

As for the rain, we got the rear windshield replaced yesterday THANKFULLY because the heavens opened and the dogs and cats have been raining down ever since! But our trunk has a dent and a big scratch which I am SO not pleased with, but that will require a deductible to fix. Sigh.

Thanks for posting. I recognize your name from [livejournal.com profile] b0st0n and am always looking for good people. Esp in the neighborhood!

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-08 04:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magickcat.livejournal.com
Aww, well at least you got it replaced beforew all this crap started! Whew!
That sucks about the dent & deductable though. :(
I know there are some good parts of Dorchester, and this part probably isn't evenb THAT bad, it's more of a crappy apartment/landlord situation. I'm on the South Boston line, close to Andrew Square.

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-11 12:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
Aaah, out with the OFDs and the Polish folks. There are some really nice people out that way. I'm a home-visiting social worker, and my "area" is mainly Dorchester and Roxbury (with some Southie), so I see a loooooot of people.

Are you planning on moving soon? Where to?

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-11 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magickcat.livejournal.com
Aye...waaaaay too close to the Polish club... not that I have anything against Polish folks...if ANYONE banged on my windos regularly at odd hours I'd be pissed....hehehe
I *wish* I could move soon... I have section 8, and like...no money... so I need to find someplace... but I just don't know where to look just yet.
I need a few specific amenities that I won't ever back down on again. Hahaha.
Oh, and what's an OFD?

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-12 02:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
OFD = Originally From Dorchester

But ugh, yeah, if you're looking for affordable housing, good luck. Totally sucks and I feel for you. Good luck with that.

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-12 04:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magickcat.livejournal.com
Ahhh...okay! LOL Thanks.

Yeah, affordable= damn near impossible.:(

Re: Drunk Guy

Date: 2006-06-08 01:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] judecorp.livejournal.com
I live in a really nice neighborhood, in a really awesome apartment, but it is SOOOO not worth it.

We're thinking of moving further out. Like Winthrop.

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