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We have been on a cleaning rampage for most of the day in preparation for a little birthday party that my smoochie is throwing, ostensibly for me but I maintain that it is for us. While it's nice to have something totally planned for me, to sort of... leave out her birthday entirely doesn't sit well with me. I am making her add her name to the cake. Hey, it's her birthday, too! (Or was. You know.) I just want someone to take over the planning sometimes!

Anyway, the cleaning. I did the bathroom, kitchen, and bedroom all before 11am. Because I am a cleaning god. We got the 80 tons of cat fur off the floors and Jen even did some cursory dusting of the tv/components. Jen even vacuumed the couch and the papa-san. The cats settled on both /immediately/. Those little ingrates. They also love to christen newly-cleaned litter boxes.

This week we find out whether we were successful in our baby-making endeavors or whether a conversation about IVF is in our future. I'd really prefer the former, truth be told. I think I have the stamina to pull off an IVF journey but I'd really need Jen to be on-board and actively involved way more than ever before. And if that's not something she thinks she can do... well, that's cool. But I won't do it even largely on my own. The IUIs, sure, but not the Big Guns. Too much rollercoaster. Too many medications. Too long a process.

Of course, if we ARE unsuccessful this time around, I will gorge myself silly on expensive sushi of the deliciously raw variety and lift a lot of heavy boxes in the name of moving. And drink diet soda with reckless abandon for the duration of any break we may take.

~//~

Holy crap, we're having a house inspection on Monday. If all goes well, we might have to actually *gulp* give notice to our sweetheart landlords.

Date: 2006-10-21 10:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mightywombat.livejournal.com
I think it's cute that you call your smoochie "smoochie" because I call my smoochie "smoochie" too.

Date: 2006-10-21 10:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sassyjenski.livejournal.com
yay! what house did you bid on? i want to see how close to me you are!

Date: 2006-10-21 10:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sassywoman.livejournal.com
I am really hoping this IUI works for you Jude. If not, I do believe you are strong enough for IVF. It is tough but you are tougher my friend. :)

Date: 2006-10-21 10:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kjames.livejournal.com
house!!! which one?! don't leave me hanging here, jude!

the whole baby making thing... man this is a crazy emotional rollercoaster for you and i'm sorry for that. i wish it was a lot easier for you. :|

Date: 2006-10-21 10:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] colorbars.livejournal.com
If this frankenbaby cycle didn't work, you sure you don't just want to have a gang bang? ;)

Date: 2006-10-21 11:37 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] whuffle.livejournal.com
Congrats on the house inspection. I truly and deeply home that all goes well and that this place becomes part of the dreams you are building. Happy birthday darling girl. You deserve the very best.

Date: 2006-10-22 04:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] odd-dog.livejournal.com
happy birthday!

Date: 2006-10-22 05:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cappucinogrrl.livejournal.com
I'm thinking happy baby thoughts for you.

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