A little birdie told me that you can't make it by yourself

[judecorp]

I need to pack and hit the bed if I'm going to drag myself up at 4:30am to take a shower and get to the airport at 5:30 to go see a girl. I'll probably be checking LJ more than I usually do when I go away for the weekend, since The Girl will be sleeping a lot, I'd imagine.

Today was an interesting day. I was called 'dysfunctional' by Schoolmate Sheila because I like girls, I got completely furious at my boss, and I asked a lot of questions during a job interview for a friend of mine that basically ensured that he wouldn't get the job. At the same time, I learned that I really /am/ comfortable talking to anyone about anything A.-related, Coworker Stephanie bit me hard on the shoulder blade and gave me chills, and Schoolmate Jean said I was her best friend in our Families class.

So I leave you with this, even though I did it a couple of months ago:

Ask me something. Anything. I will answer. You betcha. Now's the time to ask the hard questions. There's no hour/day/week time limit. If it makes it here, I'll answer it. You can ask as many questions as you want, but only one at a time, because I'll get overwhelmed. :)

The price is that you have to answer this question:

One thing that really bugs me about you, Jude, is _______________.

Have a good weekend, kids!

Comments

Questionsssss

[laurajones.livejournal.com]

Q: Do you feel that the breakup between you and A was balanced, or one-sided?

A: One thing that really bugs me about you, Jude, is that you post so damn much, I can't keep up with your interesting life!

:)

Re: Questionsssss

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

I think all breakups are at least somewhat balanced, and by that, I mean that they are never entirely one-sided. Relationships, and their breakups, take all partners.

That said, while the failing of the relationship was certainly balanced, if not more heavily leaning on my side, the actual breakup was brought about by his decision. Because I would have worn that commitment into the grave, I wouldn't have ended our relationship, which I feel he did when he said he just wanted to be friends.

Of course, I am now the one initiating all of this divorce stuff, and I'm the one pursuing other relationships, so I would suppose it's a lot more one-sided on my end than perhaps I want to admit.