Ask a Judabaga
Aug. 11th, 2001 06:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
judecorp(Stolen idea from Madame Zuzu)
You get one question. Any question. And I will answer it. Honestly.
Let the games begin!
You get one question. Any question. And I will answer it. Honestly.
Let the games begin!
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Date: 2001-08-11 03:53 pm (UTC)No, I'm kidding. My honest question?
What is your biggest regret? (I'm interested in stuff like that, so sue me.)
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Date: 2001-08-11 04:23 pm (UTC)~//~
My biggest regret, and this will sound angry and bitter and reactive (but it's not), is getting married.
I am idealistically opposed to marriage, both as a patriarchal institution and the heterosexist reality that it is. But I got swept up into wanting to make someone else happy, and I compromised my own ideals. I don't regret the relationship, no, that is regret-free. But I regret actually partaking in an institution that I loathe - and to /please/ someone, which really isn't high on my list of things to do.
So there you go, dollface.