Rainy days and transfer cases always get me down

[judecorp]

When Coworker Sarah left the agency, I was supposed to only inherit those cases of hers that were supposed to close between now and the time I left the agency, and this one case I took because I know the family pretty well. Somehow, between then and now, I have inherited something like 3-4 more cases. This is fine, I don't mind the cases or whatever but... now these people are going to get new caseworkers again in 2 months? How frustrating.

Taking on other people's cases is tiring because you just don't have all the info. Even the most note-conscious clinician has some information in his/her head that never makes it to documentation. And even if it /is/ all documented, there are all of these questions: When to introduce yourself to parents? How to get around the awkwardness? Where is that damned report and why isn't it in the case file? Stuff like that. Bleh.

So today I will call a Dad that as far as I know has been pretty uninvolved. I will call and introduce myself, and in two months, someone else will call. No wonder families hate the system. I hate the system. I much prefer having cases I get from opening, because I know everything that's gone on. Hello, Control Freak!

Okay, now I shove some food in my face before heading out to a visit. I leave you with this Questions Meme.

~//~

Gakked from wendywoohoo:

I want everyone who reads this to ask me 3 questions, no more no less. Ask me anything you want. Then I want you to go to your journal, copy and paste this allowing your friends (including myself) to ask you anything.

Comments

[michael622.livejournal.com]

1. How did you first know you were a lesbian?
2. Have you ever had any sexual feelings for men?
3. Do you think it is possible for someone to be truly bisexual?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Well, I don't really identify as a lesbian, but I let people assume that I do. So I'll change your question to, "How did you first know that you liked girls in that special way?" and answer this: I admitted it to myself when I was 17 and was getting ready to go to college. I had a couple of crushes on girls before then, and I knew they were crushes, but I didn't really give them any serious thought in terms of, you know, life.

2. I have absolutely had sexual feelings for men - I can think of 3 in my limited sexual history. I have sexual feelings for a lot of people. Unfortunately, my sexual feelings for men don't really go beyond attraction to them and a willingness to let them go down on me. I really don't particularly want to see or touch male genitalia. (And by "willingness," I mean, "Not my first choice, but I'd take it in a pinch.") That doesn't really work out too well for the men, so it's probably better that I don't date them. ;)

3. Not only possible, I think it's probable that most people are in some way bisexual. I think it's very unlikely that the majority of the population (myself included) are strictly hetero- or homosexual. It's just not realistic. There's a lot of grey area there. That said, I think that even those people in the grey tend to have one gender that they /prefer/ or are most comfortable with, and will go with that.

[wendywoowho.livejournal.com]

1) The Powers That Be are declaring that, hence forth, only one television series will be shown. Ever. What series do you hope they choose for perpetuity?

2) Coke or Pepsi?

3) When you get your adorable dog, what kind of adorable dog will s/he be?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Easy. Jeopardy.

2. Regular Pepsi, or Diet Coke. I have no idea why.

3. The most adorable kind, of course! I love terriers, especially Jack Russels, but they take a lot of work. I'm sure I'll end up going to the pound and finding that special dog that calls to my family. :)

[wendywoowho.livejournal.com]

"Hello, JUDE! Juuuuuuude! I'm your dog! Yes, I am! C'mon over! I have a TUMMY! RUB IT!!!"

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

EXACTLY. That is exactly what is going to happen.

*scritch scritch*

[wendywoowho.livejournal.com]

And that is how you'll know s/he is YOUR doggie. Not some other fambly's.

[serenity-coach7.livejournal.com]

I am the same with Pepsi ro Diet Coke... strange huh? Must be a social work thing?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

Ha! Must be!

[cappucinogrrl.livejournal.com]

1. What did you major in in college?

2. If you can only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?

3. If you could have any super power, what would it be?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. I started out as a Biology major with a minor in Secondary Education. That lasted about 3 minutes, wherein I promptly switched to Psychology. I have minors in Biology and Philosophy, though.

2. Macaroni and Cheese from a box (powdered cheese).

3. Mind-reading. Absolutely. It would certainly make my life a lot easier.

[http://users.livejournal.com/_epiphany_girl_/]

1. It's the middle of the night. You're in a dark forest and come to a clearing. What's there waiting for you?
2. What one song describes you best?
3. What would you do if you won the lottery?

Sorry, perhaps not the most original questions, but I'm working on it. :)

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Jennifer

2. "Always a Woman To Me" - Billy Joel, closely followed by "Superman" - Five For Fighting

3. Pay Jennifer's student loans, buy a used Jeep Wrangler and drive up the coast, and donate a bunch to charity.

[communista.livejournal.com]

1. Do you affiliate yourself with any religion? Why or why not?
2. What's your worst habit?
3. What song do you LOVE that you wouldn't openly admit to?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Unitarian Universalism. It combines healthy doses of skepticism, spiritualism, and social justice, which gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside.

2. I pick my hangnails like nobody's business.

3. "Complicated" - Avril Lavigne

[kungfoogirl.livejournal.com]

1. Scout wants to know if her other Mommy misses her.

2. What is UP with the addiction to the Olsen Twins?? They are *so* young.

3. Since your most endearing quality is your hatred of onions, please you please explain to me what it is about them you hate so much? For me, I only hate one thing about onions. And that one thing is "the fact that they exist".

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Of COURSE I do!

2. The Olsen Twins thing is a total joke. I'm not sexually attracted to them (much) and I know they're terribly young. They're cute, and it's funny, especially since I work for Children's Services.

3. There is one trait of onions that makes me hate them. And that is the simple trait of "they are fucking disgusting."

[whirledpeas.livejournal.com]

1. What do you dream about most? (Day or night)?
2. Why am I going to miss you so much when you go?
3. Did you know that Afton has a crush on you?


(Thanks, by the way, for helping us....)

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Day: having a house and a family and being all grown-up and stuff. Night: usually work. Sad but true.

2. Because it's very sad to leave such very good friends who I feel like I don't have enough time to love properly HERE, and how on earth will I love you properly when I'm THERE? This of course means we need to spend more time together so I can love you properly a little. And eat fried pickles.

3. I knew it! I could tell by the way he was waggling his little butt at me! (It's mutual, btw.)

[yotto.livejournal.com]

1) What time is it?
2) What's your favorite movie?
3) If a train is traveling northwest at 45 miles per hour, and another train is 100 miles to the west, traveling southeast at 35 miles per hour. How long will it take before they are north/south of each other, and how far apart will they be when they are? Extra credit if you take the curvature of the Earth into account.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. 7:54 PM EST
2. So I Married An Axe Murderer
3. You are insane.

[yotto.livejournal.com]

Oh, come on! It's simple. They're traveling (45+35)/sqrt(2) towards each other, which makes it about 56.57 mph. So, they'll get to the same longitude in 1.77 hours, or about 1 hour 46 minutes. And change. Because they're also traveling 56.57 mph away from each other, from the same line of latitude, they will be exactly 100 miles away from each other, north/south, when they cross that line.

Okay, the curvature of the Earth part was a bit tough.

This word problem was brough to you by Childhood Memories You'd Rather Forget. Next week, swirlies!

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

You know, I made a diagram for the problem and everything, complete with angles and the 100 feet (between them at the outset and between them at the end). But then I remembered that I had all that social work stuff to go over and said, "BAH! Why am I doing this word problem, and why do I care that x^2 = 2a^2 and y^2 = 2b^2 and a + b = 100!!"

:)

[gimmeapony.livejournal.com]

1. What is your favorite junk food item?
2. Is your alarm clock set for the correct time or is it intentionally fast/slow?
3. What is your preferred color for pen ink?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Cadbury Mini Eggs. I was so good this year and bought NONE. But I could eat a pound in one sitting. I swear it.

2. I believe the alarm clock is set 5 minutes faster than Sprint PCS. And that's because Sprint PCS seems slower than the rest of the world.

3. Blue. Papermate stickpen blue. Sadly, I have to use black ink at work. :(

[prettyvacantone.livejournal.com]

1. What's your favorite picture of yourself?
2. The one gadget you can't live without?
3. First word that comes to mind when someone asks you to describe yourself in one word....

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. I'm so vain, I like a LOT of pictures of myself. I like this one. I like the one on my license. I like the one in my high school yearbook. I like any picture where I'm with my smurfbrother and we're making fish faces!

2. My computer. Does that count as a gadget? Cell phone is a close second.

3. Crazy.

[hope-persists.livejournal.com]

1)If you could only do activism for ONE issue ever again, what would it be?

2)If you could create the most ideal job in the world for you, what would it be?

3)If you could only listen to one musician ever again for the rest of your life, who would it be?

4)will we meet up when you move to MA?

that was fun!

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Queer youth. I just love 'em to pieces. And there is SO MUCH to be done!

2. I would work in a center/school for queer youth, and sort of both a program director and an on-site therapist. I would help to bring in grants and do outreach and all of that, and also work with the young people and their families through the difficult time of adolescence.

3. That's a really tough question, because I love music so much and my taste is so varied. I'll say Ani DiFranco because she's always coming out with new and different stuff.

4. Absolutely.

[kjtoo.livejournal.com]

1. Would you like to be a celebrity and have James Lipton (Inside the Actor's Studio) suck up to you for an hour while he asks you questions about your life?
2. Have you ever tasted your own earwax? Someone else's earwax?
3. Could you stop with the kicking?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Are you kidding? I love to talk about myself! I could talk about myself all day. BRING IT ON, SOUPY!!

2. I have, indeed, tasted my own earwax. But only mine.

3. No way! Crybaby.

[rizzo41.livejournal.com]

1. What's your next piercing? Either to get or to ditch.

2. If money was no object what is the first frivolous thing you would buy. This does not include such things as practical cars or two-family houses.

3. Which movie (if any) has had the most impact on you?

4. What do you do to people who break the rulese and ask too few or too many questions?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. I'll probably end up ditching the vertical labret before anything else. I imagine it may hinder the whole job search thing. :(

2. A cruise. Well, I wouldn't BUY a cruise, I would, you know, GO ON a cruise. And take some people with me.

3. Impact? Like, serious impact? Probably American History X.

4. I would make them eat rulese.

[intrigue77.livejournal.com]

1. What is under your bed?

2. How long have you been involved with the Columbus Women's Chorus?

3. What is the most disgusting thing you ever had to do?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. There is nothing under my bed. Sometimes our little cat Ralph will sleep under there, but she's not there now.

2. I got involved with the CWC in September of last year. And then we had our concert in January. And then they started new music for the spring concert that I didn't feel comfortable singing, so I took this spring off. So I guess I'm not technically involved now.

3. I don't know if I've ever done anything particularly disgusting. Hrm.

[vorpalbla.livejournal.com]

1. I know you hate Nader. But what do you think of the Greens, and of third parties in general?

2. If you can't get a Big Gay Job, what would be your ideal non-Gay Job?

3. How long do you want to live?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. I like the platform the Greens represent. I mean, they're progressive and environmental, and I like that. However, after having several conversations with my smurfbrother (the political scientist and statistician), I really and truly do believe from the bottom of my heart that a third party will never make it.

2. My ideal non-Gay job would involve Program Management for some other non-profit organization - something vaguely political, like an environmental cause or a children's advocacy organization. I'd like to be a professional schmoozer, I think.

3. That's a good question. My grandfather is currently 86 and seems to have a lot of good life left in him. So I'll say 101, just to pick something. Unless, of course, I start to lose my faculties - then I think I'd like to go sooner.

question time

[wlscbone.livejournal.com]

1. how many children would you like to have?

2. what's the weirdest thing you've ever seen someone try to sell on Ebay?

3. do you like pineapple on your pizza?

Re: question time

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Jen will probably die if she reads this, but right now I'm thinking I would like 3. Finances might not allow for that, though.

2. I remember when that young man was trying to auction off a kidney (but I'm not sure if that was a hoax or not).

3. Pineapple is my /favorite/ pizza topping!!

[baab.livejournal.com]

1. Is this an innocuous question??


2. Is a friend who doesn't communicate well or often still a friend?


3. What is your favorite color?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Yes.
2. Yes. Especially if that friend is YOU! :)
3. Midnight blue Crayola.

[calledmara.livejournal.com]

1. Be honest. Does it annoy you when I show up randomly without calling?
2. How do you think you've changed the most as a person in the last 2 years, not *what* but *how.*
3. You'd like totally kiss me if we had met pre-Jen right?

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. Yes. It annoys me when anyone shows up randomly without calling. I am one of those people who gets an idea to do something and gets irritated when that's disrupted - like if I'm reading email and Jen comes and kisses me, I get annoyed sometimes even.

2. I'm not sure I really understand the question. I think the "how" of my life changes in the past two years have come about through the increases in commitment between Jen and me. But I'm not sure I'm reading your question correctly.

3. I don't know. Probably. I was a drunk-kissing whore, you know. The only people I /didn't/ kiss were the people I was afraid would want more from me. As long as you didn't give me a "I want to date you" vibe, I would have kissed you.

[calledmara.livejournal.com]

1. Well in 5 weeks it won't be a problem! I don't call cause of my day minutes being used by work, feel free to tell me to leave.

2. I guess I was trying to get how you've changed as an individual, cause from knowing you and people it sounds like you've changed a lot in the last year. Cuz obviously Jen is the biggest change.

3. Yeah, but I don't kiss girls in front of boys so it probably wouldn't have happened :P Besides I'm in love with you Jude.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

1. I hope you weren't offended. Because I didn't mean any offense.

2. Okay, I got confused by the word "how." I /have/ changed quite a bit. For starters, I stay home more, save money more, and think to the future more. I go to bed earlier and do more laundry. I am more sensitive and take things more personally, though I'm not sure that's relationship-related. I am more critical of friendships.

[calledmara.livejournal.com]

1. I am offended and now hate you.

[judecorp.livejournal.com]

Good. That was my intention all along.